Yes!getting girls to sleep with you on your first date
Okay, so as part of my career planning, it was suggested that I read some books on management. So I've been reading this book called 'Yes!'. It's about using principles of social psych to get people to do the stuff you want them to.
So I was thinking, can these really be applied to getting girls to sleep with you on your first date? I think, as you'll see from my discussion below, the answer is a resounding Yes!
So, first, there is a chapter in this book that talks about labeling. The idea is really simple. They had some researchers run a pre-election survey on some people. Then, half the sample were told they were "the sort of individuals who were likely to vote", and some were told that they were about average on whether it came to voting or not. The people who were told they were the voting type were 15% more likely to vote. Thus, by telling someone that they were something, it made them more likely to do that something. So, now, let's apply this to a hypothetical scenario where you want your date to sleep with you after the first date. Very simple my friends. Just tell the girl you're with after you've talked for a few minutes that you get the impression that she is "the sort of girl who sleeps with people after the first date". You'll be golden.
But, maybe you're just not *that* attractive and think it won't be enough. No problem, there is another chapter that can help you out here. So, apparently, people are much more likely to do stuff if they can relate to another person who was in the same situation as them. There was a test run where people were asked to recycle towels in a hotel. Two messages were used. One told the guests that recycling was good for the environment. One told them that the person who stayed in this room prior to them recycled his towels. The second message got an astounding 33% increase in towel recycling. So, okay, maybe the girl cutely laughed at your previous comment about the sort of person she is. At this point, you should invite her to your room, and when she's there, point out that the girl who was in here last night slept with you right after the first date. If she doesn't take off her clothing right there and then... well let's not go there.
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